The Narcissistic Parent's Selective Parenting

It's a painful reality for many that narcissistic parents often exhibit a pattern of emotional detachment from their children, only to reappear when their own needs or image are at stake. This inconsistent and manipulative behavior can have a profound and lasting impact on a child's emotional well-being.

While the narcissistic parent is absent or uninterested in their child's life, they often have a sudden surge of interest when family or friends are visiting. This sudden display of parental affection is not motivated by genuine love or concern, but rather by a desire to maintain a positive public image. The child is merely a prop in the narcissist's carefully curated performance.

 This inconsistent and manipulative behavior can leave children feeling confused, rejected, and undervalued. They may struggle with feelings of abandonment, self-doubt, and difficulty forming healthy relationships. The emotional damage caused by a narcissistic parent's selective parenting can take years to heal.

A divorce and custody coach trained in coercive control can provide invaluable support to individuals navigating a complex divorce or custody battle involving a narcissistic or abusive partner.

By understanding the tactics used by individuals exhibiting coercive control, I can help you identify and counter manipulative behaviors, develop effective communication strategies, and protect yourself and your children during your divorce and custody battle as well as moving into a “Co-Parenting” relationship with the high conflict individual.

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